John Henry
Century City was crowded that afternoon—shoppers, office people, families moving through the food court. The smell of teriyaki hung in the air, and the noise rose and fell around us. Nothing about it felt like the setting for a serious conversation. It was just lunch.
We carried our trays to a small table near the railing. Don started in on his chicken bowl, mixing the sauce into the rice, a few pieces of tempura set off to the side. I sat across from him, watching the steam rise between us.
I leaned forward.
"Can I ask you something?" He didn't look up. "Sure."
"Why me? Why are you giving me this chance? I've seen a lot of talented people out here."
That made him stop. He set his chopsticks down. Then he leaned back slightly and looked at me with that calm, measured focus he used when he was about to say something real.
"I've seen a lot of talented people," he said. "More than you know."
He let that sit.
"But talent isn't the separator. Out here, everyone has talent.
Everyone works. Everyone wants something."
"What matters is what happens when things go against you.
Most people fold. They get hurt, they stay down, they disappear." "You didn't."
He paused.
"You didn't make it in tennis," he said plainly. "And you still got back up. You didn't quit. You didn't walk away from yourself."
"And I've watched how you work. How you handle things. You stay with the problem. You don't back off. Most people do."
"And you never said 'can't.'" "Can't," I said. "I never say can't."
He shook his head slightly, almost amused. "I noticed. It's in your DNA."
He set his chopsticks down again.
"You took the job and drove to New York not knowing what the job would entail," he said. "Most people wouldn't do that."
He wasn't looking at me for a reaction. He was just stating the truth.
"And when I asked you if you wanted to take over the West Coast offices," he continued, "you said 'sure.'"
He looked at me then—direct, matter-of-fact. "You asked me, 'When.'"
"And I said, 'Tomorrow.'" He let the line sit there.
"You didn't hesitate. You didn't ask what it meant. You didn't ask what you'd be doing. You didn't ask how big it was. You just said okay."
He took a sip of his Diet Coke, then added:
"You remind me of John Henry." "John Henry? Who's John Henry?"
"Who?" he said. "You never heard of John Henry?" "No."
"It's not a who. He's the winningest horse in racing history. My cousin Sam Rubin owned him."
He leaned forward slightly.
"John Henry wasn't supposed to be anything. Small. Wrong build. Plainly bred. Trainers didn't want him. But he won everything."
He paused, then delivered the only races that mattered. "Arlington Million—twice. Jockey Club Gold Cup. Horse of the
Year—twice."
"They called him the people's champion."
"He beat horses he wasn't supposed to beat. Closed harder than anyone. Fastest in the last quarter. He'd run them down."
Then he looked at me, thinking the comparison was obvious. "You're resilient. You find a way to win. You're like John
Henry."
We finished eating. Threw out our empty bowls. Walked toward the exit.
I looked at him. "So you're comparing me to a horse." "Not any horse," he said. "John Henry."
I raised one eyebrow and stared at him. He patted me on the shoulder.
"It's a compliment. Take it."
Mitsui & Company represented Don's patents in the Pacific Rim. Japanese culture reveres inventors, and Don was one of the most prolific in the world. Hundreds of U.S. and foreign patents—medi-cine, entertainment, communications, technology, consumer prod-ucts. He'd opened several billion-dollar industries.
At twelve, he attended the Columbia Science Honors Program. He created the first hydraulic exerciser—the AMF Muscleworker, later called the Bruce Jenner Exerciser. He invented the first elec-tronic air freshener; Charles of the Ritz, a division of Squibb now Bristol-Myers Squibb, set up a separate division for his patents. He invented color-changing fabric and worked with Giorgio di Sant' Angelo. He was also a futurist—he saw where markets were going before they got there.
That's why Mitsui was interested in his opinion. They showed
him many things—textiles, food samples, medicines, electronics. They wanted his eye on all of it.
Mr. Terashima, Mitsui's President of Global Strategic Studies Institute, was more than a business ally. He was a close friend. Don became godfather to Terashima's only child.
On my first arrival in Los Angeles, going to the Mitsui head-quarters downtown was expected. Before we stepped inside, Don slowed me down. He showed me how to take a business card prop-erly: both hands, fingertips at the corners, a bow as you accept.
"Left tip, right tip," he said, demonstrating. "Read it before you put it away."
That instruction was my passport into the room.
When I was introduced, it was not as myself but as a representa-tive of Donald Spector. The door swung wide in ways it would not have otherwise. People had waited twenty years for that level of access.
They wheeled prototypes into the boardroom—textiles, food samples, medicines, electronics. A side office had displays already set up. Executives leaned forward, notebooks open, waiting for Don's verdict.
At one point Don was asking specific questions about the energy output of something. It was all Greek to me. But I watched how he worked. A nod meant momentum. A shake of the head meant recalibration. He didn't just see products. He saw what would survive the market and what wouldn't.
Later that week, Mr. Takahashi, the VP and director of the L.A. offices, invited me to a business function in a hotel ballroom.
"This is Lisa, representing Donald Spector."
Heads turned. Some adjusted their tone, others recalibrated their questions. Each introduction carried weight. I wasn't just a guest. I was placed inside the circle.
When they found out I played tennis, another door opened. Takahashi invited me to the Riviera Country Club. I became a frequent guest, sometimes playing singles, but more often doubles with Takahashi as my partner.
The tennis complex sat in the lower corner of the property, tucked like a little stadium in the Pacific Palisades bowl. Two dozen courts laid out in tight rows, separated by dark green wind screens on chain-link fences. Walking between them felt like narrow corri-dors—just glimpses of other matches through partly transparent mesh.
The faint smell of eucalyptus and cut grass drifted over from the golf course. Slightly gritty feel under your shoes where court paint and ball fuzz collected along the baselines. Old-school L.A. private club: understated money, white tennis outfits, the overlapping pop of strings from twenty courts at once.
The game carried its own etiquette. I had to play well enough to make sure we won, but never over-hit, never humiliate the other side. Precision without cruelty. Strength without spectacle. It was the same calibration I was learning in boardrooms.
After one match, Don laughed and told me I really needed to pick up golf. His way of reminding me that placement wasn't only about courts or boardrooms—it was about being fluent in every arena where alliances were made.
The Hancock Park invitation arrived a few weeks later.
Iron gates opened to magnolia-scented lawns. A string quartet in the foyer. A pianist in the parlor. The dining room swallowed thirty people—the long table ran like a spine through the house, candles and silver and linen.
I scanned the place cards: a Singaporean ambassador, attachés from the European Union trade office, the head of NASA's Jet Propulsion Laboratory, senior executives from Mitsui's Tokyo and D.C. offices. This wasn't a dinner party. It was a symposium in formal dress.
I was wearing a red silk blouse and a black silk skirt. Don ordered an unusual drink—I don't remember what it was, some-thing I'd never heard of. Every Mitsui man at the table ordered the same thing.
Mr. Takahashi rose to offer a toast when Don entered. He spoke in careful English of partnership and history. When the applause softened, Don leaned close and said, "Introduce yourself to a few of the business people in the room."
He brushed my sleeve once—instruction, not flourish. I smoothed the front of my dress and took the cue.
After the main course and before dessert, I excused myself.
The powder room was cool marble and amber light. Installed there, like a secondary exhibit, was a prototype they had shown in the office—chrome, LEDs, a neat panel of buttons.
Curiosity is small and dangerous. I pressed a button the way you test a prop in rehearsal.
The toilet answered with mechanical certainty. Cold water launched in a precise arc. It soaked the front of my red silk blouse and spattered up my face.
I grabbed towels and dabbed. Silk kept its wet weight. I counted my options and realized invisibility was gone.
I pushed open the powder room door and walked back into the dining room. Heads turned the instant I crossed the threshold. Don saw me first—he rose and, with the decisiveness he reserved for practical rescue, removed his jacket and draped it around my shoulders.
Meeting their eyes—ambassadors, engineers, executives—I said with a smile, "I am happy to report that the sprayer on the new self-cleaning toilet works."
Don laughed. The table followed. The JPL director leaned back and said, "Field-tested under pressure. That's the standard."
Later someone raised a glass: "Next prototype, please test before the main course."
Weeks later, in a pitch room where we needed warmth more than specs, a client opened with, "Don't surprise my clients like the Mitsui toilet." The room broke. The anecdote softened the meeting and became usable currency.
I left Hancock Park that night with damp red silk clinging to skin and Don's jacket around my shoulders.